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    Day 1 - something or someone you're grateful for today!
    Day 2 - your best work and what it took to get you there
    Day 3 - a time you were very, very wrong
    Day 4 - your best three traits
    Day 5 - your worst three traits
    Day 6 - a conversation that changed you
    Day 7 - your earliest moment in which something was meaningful for you
    Day 8 - someone who looks up to you
    Day 9 - a time you should have asked for help
    Day 10 - something small you really like!
    Day 11 - a moment you keep coming back to
    Day 12 - a recurring dream and what you think it means
    Day 13 - a conversation you would have done over if you could, and how you would if you had another chance!
    Day 14 - a regret you're holding onto
    Day 15 - a time someone forgave you and what it meant
    Day 16 - someone you really look up to and why
    Day 17 - something you love about yourself
    Day 18 - something you'd change about yourself
    Day 19 - the best version of you!
    Day 20 - the best part about the past
    Day 21 - the best part about the present
    Day 22 - the best part about your future
    Day 23 - a skill you'd like to gain or improve upon
    Day 24 - 3 items from your bucket list
    Day 25 - your role in the world
    Day 26 - something you're deeply afraid of
    Day 27 - something that inspires you day after day!
    Day 28 - a moment that changed the course of your life
    Day 29 - a time you cried for an hour straight
    Day 30 - a time you laughed for an hour straight

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    Day 1 - something or someone you're grateful for today!

    This gonna sound dumb af but I've just had the best sleep in a long time. Ya boi woke up feeling like Mayweather looking at his bank account, no tiredness at all and running on 120% despite the struggle hurricane going on in the uk atm

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    Day 2 - your best work and what it took to get you there

    am so excited to double post yo

    I would put the recent work with one of my best friends up there, when he asked me for a consultation regarding something in my field. I really wanted to put together a comprehensive guide and package for him that I ended up venturing into new aspects I hadn't considered and presented something that he could find very understandable and very effective. He texts me his progress weekly like I asked and he keeps rec'ing me to his mates. Triple Win there

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    Day 3 - a time you were very, very wrong

    I didn't listen to my gut when it was time to leave and got seduced by sweet nothings even though their actions said otherwise. Created a big problem when i finally wised up in Poland and had to spend a week trapped with em but polish beer is very effective in getting you through the days

    Day 4 - your best three traits

    i have none next q

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    Day 5 - your worst three traits

    - huge procrastinator, unless i am 101% into something i'll put it off for as long as possible until its a really big issue. this has bitten me in the ass a lot
    - am horrible at staying in touch with 99% of people. depending on who it is/how long i've known you, I don't need to talk to you for that long which can confuse ppl and rub em the wrong way
    - if pushed far enough i have a terrible wrath and will do everything in my power to make your life as unpleasant and uncomfortable as possible for as long as possible in that moment no matter where we are ^______^ but i'm v v v aware of this and it really takes a lot of factors to reach that point.

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    onwards with the 7 days of smiles' interrogations for blackmail material thoughtful questions i missed!
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    Day 6 - a conversation that changed you
    hmm. i've read a lot of things that have changed me; not so much for conversations.

    Day 7 - your earliest moment in which something was meaningful for you
    A Harmonica from my Dad. Something of a family heirloom and its one of the only things he ever gave to me

    Day 8 - someone who looks up to you
    i really hope the answer is no one because i'm the worst role model but the last person who i remember saying this a leader of another volunteering group. and he said "i really look up to you trib u can do xyz everyone loves you" and on the outside this guy is flawless, so it was a really flattering compliment

    Day 9 - a time you should have asked for help
    so um something very big happened 3 years ago and what I SHOULD'VE DONE is gone to my friends, told them what happened and asked for help. Instead i did the opposite and closed myself off for a while. I did listen to some advice in the end but it sent me on a v v v roundabout and potentially self destructive cycle that im happy i got out of yay

    Day 10 - something small you really like!
    my credit card when i have money :)

    Day 11 - a moment you keep coming back to
    There's a book i read that gave a tip to keep yourself in a charismatic state "think of a time you felt v happy" so i commonly use the time I won a state athletics competition

    Day 12 - a recurring dream and what you think it means
    all my dreams are completely random rn lmao. Before when I kept my dream diary there was a common person that kept popping up, and I felt that I had to get in touch with them. So I sent them a letter and afterwards, they vanished from my dream. think that fixed the problem.

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    mfw people open up the spoiler and have this face while reading

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    Day 13 - a conversation you would have done over if you could, and how you would if you had another chance!

    A conversation during art on the first week of secondary school. It's not something I regret, but If I had answered the question differently then my core group of friends would have changed completely. My acquaintances would be my boys, and my boys atm my acquaintances. Would have been very interesting to see how that went.

    Day 14 - a regret you're holding onto

    I regret how things ended between my ex-homie and I. If we had both calmed down an talked the next day we probably would have sorted things out, but the lingering resentment would have grown. I regret how things ended, but not that it ended.

    Second place goes to how I treated someone during our birthday week!!! (our bdays were 7 days apart it was a v big deal to her) I think that month was probably the worst month ever in my life lmao in terms of unfair shit happening to user: noir and I burned and retreated from a lot of relationships while trying not to crawl up and die. Again, I regret how it happened, not that it happened. I regret that I wasn't mature enough to tell her what I found out her game plan was and why I'm ending it. I don't regret it happening because the subsequent lesson was one that i needed to learn asap before i fucked up later in life

    Day 15 - a time someone forgave you and what it meant

    "i can't speak on what you're going through, but I know it's not in your character and you had a good reason for doing so. I just want to let you know that I forgive you an that when you feel like you're ready to talk, I'm just a text away." now he's one of the only people I still talk to from high school, also i cape for him so hard sdjfskdjfh legit wish him all the world's riches and more even as I type this.

    Day 16 - someone you really look up to and why

    Really positive and upbeat people who seem to make friends with and connect with anyone indiscriminately. Negativity is easy to find in the world so I appreciate the positive wherever. My oldest friend is one of those people and though he's the least well off out of my crew re: material things, we all see him as being richer than any of us. If that's you, then I look up to you and I value who you are as a person 100%

    Day 17 - something you love about yourself

    I love how far I'll go for the ones I love. tbh i should be dead but i'm not so God obviously wants to keep me around for a lil bit longer, who am i to tell him no

    Day 18 - something you'd change about yourself

    less logical, a lil bit more whimsical and creative

    Day 19 - the best version of you!

    6"6 200LB 8-10% BF, dripping charisma from head to toe. The whole clan, especially mama, has every whim taken care of. Ideally she wouldn't be able to remember the last time she had to shop and cook food herself. 20 strong harem on lockdown in his phone. Triggers insecure racists by just existing and being positive 24/7. Realized his life purpose and is solidly putting in work to achieve it. Total freedom - Has enough money saved to never work a traditional job again. Travels the world while sharing his life story and helping others to overcome their struggles in life, be it confidence/women/health/wealth via his own platform. Owns 3 corgis, the superior breed.

    best thing is that's not even a fantasy, it's a ongoing wip.

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    Day 20 - the best part about the past
    Papa Noir. Then innocence and the lack of expectation. Boredom was the worst thing to me and I was fortunate that I grew up in an environment that was rich in things to do and go visit. One day I would spend 2 days making a random ass huge monster out of the bionicle lego sets, then I would try and skate around the ends and not fall on my ass. With age and the experience that comes with it I've become a lot less outwardly creative, so to have a time where I could fully embrace that was cool. There was also a chicken shop around the area that gave you 1pc chicken, 2 BBQ ribs, 3 wings and large chips for Ł2 breh i was FED


    Day 21 - the best part about the present
    Technology. Everything is convenient and easy af to do now. Information you would've paid Ł100s for 10 years ago you can download for free. Travel is so easy where I'm at; day trips around Europe are cheap and comfortable. I also enjoy the greater responsibility and the different kind of freedom that comes with it. You can go out and try so many things, meet so many people and find out how to make your mark on the world.


    Day 22 - the best part about your future
    "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference."

    The Serenity Prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr resonates with me alot and how I approach the future I guess. It's a wonderful, glorious unknown, but the future isn't limited to years. The future could be a month, a day, a minute from now. And bar extraordinary circumstances that you can change most of the things in your life and build your own path. With what I can change, i will. With everything else I'll leave it up to God, Destiny, Chance, whatever you wanna call it. and that's ok.

    Day 23 - a skill you'd like to gain or improve upon
    Stack money, get my pilot's license and fly a plane one of these days.

    Day 24 - 3 items from your bucket list
    - to see all the 7 wonders of the world, both classic and modern
    - create something, pass legislation or provide a service that vastly improves the quality of someone's life
    - spend a perfect day with the person I love


    Day 25 - your role in the world
    what my role is, what i think it is and what i want it to be are questions i can't answer with 100% certainty rn. Holla in 10 years but for now accept: wanting to make a genuine change in people's lives and make sure my fam and team are shining

    Day 26 - something you're deeply afraid of

    Drowning, dying having lived an unfulfilled life

    Day 27 - something that inspires you day after day!
    Mama noir and a big photoalbum my aunt gave me 6 years ago

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    Day 28 - a moment that changed the course of your life
    honestly feel that if I never bought a Wi-Fi dongle to hook up my DS to the internet that my life would be a lot different and i would probably be richer monetary but maybe not richer mentally? who knows

    Day 29 - a time you cried for an hour straight
    a week after papa noir died. first and last time the question applies.

    Day 30 - a time you laughed for an hour straight
    Last year of high school with the crew when we would try and get last minute work done before the class. And like clockwork someone would bring up something/say something that would lead to an hour of straight clowning/laughter and many many bans from the library soz not soz

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